Will The Real Miss Jones Please Stand Up?
Last week, London was alight, outraged, and dare I say, amused with the spectacular rant of a certain lady journalist. In case you missed her column, jump here - beware, you will either collapse in disgust or die of laughter. Let me know what your thoughts...too much information or not? She certainly provoked an abundance of reactions, extreme in themselves.
I'm not a prude but my eyebrows were raised, momentarily. Do we share too much of ourselves online in the public arena? And when we get down to the root of things, is what you share - really you or a figment of the person that you want people to think you are? I try to keep my musings to writing and topics that inspire me. But let's be honest, if you're writing and networking online, you do cultivate friendships - its human nature. People want to know you as a person, right? Behind all those avatars and profiles are living breathing individuals - people, real people - and networking is about making connections between people not pixels. You successfully connect or not. It's not a popularity contest...wait, no, maybe... who knows, sometimes?
Shocking opening lines, provocative clothing, rocking badass tattoos -all attention grabbing in their own way, non? At the end of the day, whatever her motivation, Ms Jones' cringe-worthy confessional rocked our world for a day, for better or worse, the lady caused a stir and were we not entertained? I certainly was, exceedingly so. And I was inspired -not like that, but by knowing that I do not wish to become that old lady with the cat. That is a promise. Now, if you'll excuse me, I need to throw out all my Bridget Jones underpants -clearly, they are not controversial enough. From now on, it's commando...well, except for Sundays.
A/N: Hello Lovelies, it's been another busy one in London but as one of my favourite great-aunts used to say "if I don't get up to walk everyday, I'm scared that one day I might never be able to." Take what you will from that gem, I guess as long as we're moving, we're alive, right? This weekend, though, I'm hoping for a little relaxation, writing and an art show. Nothing too strenuous. What's on your diary? Talei xox
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I think sometimes people share too much of themselves. I also think most people don't really want to know the intimate details of ever aspect of their lives. Hope you are doing well!
Hope you're having a fab weekend! ;-)
Just kicking off a long holiday weekend and plans to spend the evening writing! Tonight a little kick-off celebration with champers!!
To writing and enjoying life! *clink, clink*
I try to share my true self as much as possible without giving away all the TMI details. A happy medium, I guess. :)
Enjoy your long weekend, you lucky thing! I second that toast - to a happy life and writing! * clink clink*
Melissa, a happy medium is a good medium! Hope you're having a fab weekend!
Cat, miaou darling. Restraint is an excellent strategy, protects yourself and the rest of the ether! ;-) I hope you're feeling sane right now!
KarenG, you're in wonderful company, WOW was the reaction of thousands. Agreed, not cool to dump on online friends, big 'no-no'. Funny after reading the article a lot of us will be thankful we're not Ms Jones. I'm just grateful I'm not a cat person. *mutters under breath, never will be*
I guess it's a balance - when I write poetry I tap into the stuff that would make people cringe if I dropped it in a sentence in daily conversation. I think Cat's advice is good for general blog postings etc but I also think it's ok to splurge from time to time.
Thought provoking post - thanks.
And I hope you're having a wonderful weekend :)
Rachel, it certainly conjured up a flurry of thoughts. Rest assured, I don't read the DM, this was the first I'd heard of Liz Jones. (not sure thats a good thing to admit but its true). Definitely, I think its okay to splurge from time to time. Hope you're having a fab Sunday too! :)
Hope you had a relaxed weekend!
Nas, sometimes its one's job to provoke, its what lengths you will go to do that job. Everyone has their limits, right? * deep sigh* ;-)
Have a fab week!
My weekend plans included not working, hanging out with the family, and attacking my neglected house. :)